What Colors Go With Lavender? 11 Pairings That Make This Pretty Pastel Feel Surprisingly More Sophisticated

Purple may not be the first color you reach for when it comes to your interiors, but we're here to make a case for lovely lilacs and lavender hues

lavender living room with bright yellow sofa and large artwork
(Image credit: Sawyers Design. Photo by Ansel Olson)

To be honest, I'd never considered the shade for my own interior schemes, because the thought of trying to work out what colors go with lavender feels too hard. Even while other shades of purple are having their moment, the saccharine hue seems too soft or polarizing to have much range. But, I was wrong.

Just like working out the colors that go with purple, when curating combinations for lavender, it's best to look beyond the basics of beige, black, and white — although these palettes certainly work, too. Designers were only too quick to share that some of the best pairings for this pretty pastel are actually bold and energetic shades, such as canary yellow or pops of cherry red.

So it turns out, lavender is a shade that's much easier to incorporate into your home without it coming across as childish or too sickly-sweet. Below, I've shared a recap of what colors go with lavender, and the pairings you should try in your home.

11 Lavender Color Combinations

1. LAVENDER AND RED

a space with a ceiling and moldings painted in lavender

(Image credit: File Under Pop)

TikTok's viral 'unexpected red' theory introduced us to the notion that actually all colors go with red, so why not lavender? Well, if this living room scheme by Danish paint brand File Under Pop is anything to go by, the colors certainly complement one another.

Sitting close to one another on the color wheel, red and lavender go together in theory, but in practice, it's probably best done with small pops of both shades. It's a bold pairing, but when done well, it can be a beautiful one.

2. LAVENDER AND GOLD

Bedroom with walls painted in delicate light lavender

(Image credit: Emily Gilbert Photography. Design by Colleen Simonds)

Whether it's a gilded frame or golden-toned timbers, this one makes for the most romantic of pairings. Reminiscent of classic regency-inspired interiors, it has a soft feminine touch that can also easily be modernized.

In the bedroom scheme shown above, interior designer Colleen Simonds has perfectly paired a barely-there lavender paint color with warm golden hues, through the timber frame, bamboo curtain, gilded gold mirror and brass floor lamp.

3. LAVENDER AND DARK BLUE

Living room with lavender armchairs and dark blue sofa

(Image credit: Stacy Goldberg. Design by Stephanie Bradshaw)

Purple and blue are analogous colors, meaning they sit next to each other on the color wheel, helping this pairing lend itself to a calm, subtle scheme. Using lavender with a darker blue creates a gentle but effective tonal contrast, and allows whichever is the accent color to pop.

"This is a wonderful way to bring in tonal play without being too literal," says Sarah Rosenhaus. "The richness of navy paired with lavender creates a sophisticated mood."

Because it's not too stimulating, lavender and blue is an ideal palette for a bedroom or living room, where you're looking to unwind. In the scheme shown above, Maryland interior designer Stephanie Bradshaw pairs the duo with gray, and because of their tonal similarities, lavender actually shares many of the same colors that go with gray, making these three colors a truly beautiful combination.

4. LAVENDER AND ORANGE

Sitting room with lavender painted vaulted ceiling, white walls and burnt orange armchairs

(Image credit: Tatjana Plitt. Design by Hindley & Co)

This pairing makes use of the idea of contrasting hues in color theory: the idea that a deep or bold color from one part of the wheel can be used with a lighter, more subtle shade from another part for an effective scheme. As shown in the above space by Australian architectural practice Hindley & Co, the effect can be striking.

"When orange is mixed with warm lavender, it infuses a burst of cheerful optimism into an otherwise tranquil space," says New York-based interior designer Lisa Frantz. "It’s also great for dining rooms to create a welcoming environment and stimulate conversation."

5. LAVENDER AND WHITE

Living room with white walls, lavender ceiling and black sofa

(Image credit: Tatjana Plitt. Design by Hindley & Co)

Thanks to its subtlety, lavender makes for a gentle but effective pairing with white — as the above scheme by Hindley & Co shows. "Lavender and white with bits of black is a favorite color combination of mine," says Lisa Frantz. "Depending on how it's used, it can evoke an Art Deco or Hollywood regency vibe yet still feel fresh and alive."

But need the right shade of white to make this duo work. "Depending on the strength of lavender, at the paler end, opt for cleaner whiter shades to partner with — nothing too drab as this could look dirty rather than empathetic!" says Patrick O'Donnell. "Something like our delicate 'Peignoir', a pale-ish lavender/gray colour with muted qualities, would look wonderfully simple teamed with 'Strong White' on your trim and ceiling."

For a cooler, more contemporary scheme, you'll need to choose your lavender wisely too. "Lavender is a perfect addition for clients who want a gentle 'pop' of color in a more neutral environment," says Ashley Macuga of San Carlos design studio Collected Interiors. "One of the challenges using lavender is making sure that it doesn’t present too 'nursery' in adult spaces. One of our favorite lavenders is Sherwin William’s Imagine, which has a very gray base, ensuring that it looks charming but still sophisticated."

6. LAVENDER AND BEIGE

Bedroom with lavender wall and bed base, beige upholstered headboard and rug, and wood panelling

(Image credit: Read McKendree/JBSA. Design by Kevin O'Sullivan)

Finding colors that go with beige isn't always as easy as it seems, but thanks to lavender's balance of warm and cold undertones, it's a natural duo that provides a twist on a classic neutral scheme.

"It’s a tick-up from a traditional neutral color combo, where the lavender becomes the star and creates a subtle play of warm vs. cool against the beige," says Sarah Rosenhaus.

In the bedroom shown above, designed by Luke Ferran of New York design studio Kevin O'Sullivan, layers of purple through the cushions and bed base allow the light lavender walls, along with the beige headboard and the wood panelling, to play a role as a neutral — a clever way to twist this color on its head.

7. LAVENDER AND YELLOW

Living room with lavender walls and acid yellow velvet sofa

(Image credit: Ansel Olson Photography. Design by Sawyers Design)

For the more color-confident, lavender and yellow is a particularly interesting pairing. It's also, it seems, a controversial one — not all of the designers we spoke to agreed on it. "I find it challenging to pair lavender with vibrant warm colors like red and yellow," says Lisa Frantz. "I tend to avoid them — unless I'm using lavender for a children's space and just want a snappy explosion of colors!"

Still, there are ways to make this combination work if you enjoy the energetic vibe it brings. In the above scheme by the San Francisco-based interior designer Kevin Sawyers, a personal 'color theory' makes it work. "One of my go-to approaches for color combinations is a clean color with a dirty color," he explains. "One color should be clear and have no black or gray in it, whereas the other should be slightly muted or muddy. Here, the lavender is clean and the yellow is muted, leaning toward a mustard/gold/ochre."

"I love pairing lavender with just about any color, but it works particularly well with yellow as they're opposite each other on the color wheel," adds Kentucky-based interior designer Bethany Adams. "I always like to match the intensity of the hues, however." She points to a project where she paired deep lavender walls of a bedroom with a strong, monochromatic yellow canvas — a scheme that feels ultra contemporary and unexpected.

8. LAVENDER AND GREEN

shelving painted in lavender

(Image credit: Jessica Hansen. Design: Tandem Interiors)

Purple is a great choice if you're looking for colors that go with green, so it follows that lavender can offer a softer twist on this duo. Whereas deep aubergines and plums look dramatic paired with earthy or gem-like green shades, lavender finds a comfortable match in a similarly lighter hue.

Of course, interior design is about bending the rules as much as following them, and we've also seen examples of pink-tinged lavender paired with more vibrant green shades — it's a particularly interesting combination in a kitchen.

9. LAVENDER AND MINT GREEN

A pastel scheme mixing lilac with mint green

(Image credit: YesColours)

But, believe it or not, one of the best shades of green to style with lavender is one that comes in an equally soft form. Yes, lavender is one of the colors that goes with mint green.

"Lavender and green are on the same side of the color wheel," explains Lisa Frantz. ‘Lavender works best when used with soft pastel greens — it’s a great color combo for bedrooms to create calming respite.’ Take the bedroom shown above, for example.

10. LAVENDER AND PINK

Bedroom with lavender walls and pink bedding, rug and accessories

(Image credit: Brian Wetzel. Design by Gray Space Interiors)

If lavender and pink feels too sickly-sweet, don't scroll away just yet — there are ways to make this scheme feel sophisticated rather than childish. "This is a very youthful color combination, perfect if you are looking to create a sophisticated space with levity," says Sarah Rosenhaus. "Alternatively, we love to keep things tonal and gravitate to a combo of lavender, mauve and aubergine."

In the bedroom scheme above by Pennsylvania-based designer Rasheeda Gray, lavender walls and pastel pinks are tempered by rust-colored curtains and a gray-blue ottoman that grounds the scheme.

"Selecting the right shade depends on the feeling you want to give the space," Rasheeda explains. "In this bedroom, the soft rosy-pink makes the space feel warm and cozy, but it doesn't overstimulate your senses despite its pastel appearance. It is a shade that can be mixed with other colors easily without drawing too much attention away from it — especially colors like lavender."

11. LAVENDER AND WHITE MARBLE

lilac living room

(Image credit: Michael P. H. Clifford. Design by Jake Arnold)

While not technically a color, if you're looking for what to style lavender with in your home, it's likely you'll need to also select different materials and finishes, too. One you should consider is white marble.

Finding colors that go with white marble can be trickier than you might think — yes, it's neutral, but it's not white. It's delicate veining means it has added depth that requires careful color matching, but luckily, lavender (and other shades of purple) tends to complement it quite nicely. Case in point, this space by interior designer Jake Arnold above, where a lavender bookcase sits cohesively beside a white marble coffee table.

FAQs

Does lavender go with silver or gold best?

So, you've found your perfect color pairing with lavender — but what about your finishes? Mixing in metals can prove one of the trickiest parts of a lavender-based scheme.

‘I would opt for metals that have patina and character and a bit of warmth,’ says Sarah Rosenhaus. ‘Think copper, unfinished brass, bronze and verdigris. Lavender is already quite cool, so I would shy away from any metals that lean toward silver, chrome, or stainless tones.’

If you do prefer metals on the cooler side, consider nickel as a compromise. ‘When pairing lavender with a metal, we love using polished nickel,’ says Ashley Macuga. ‘The warmer undertones offset lavender’s natural coolness, adding more of a layered depth to the design.’

What colors to avoid pairing with lavender?

The key when using lavender in your home is to style it with colors and textures that enhance its soothing qualities and draw out its subtle warmth, explains Californian-based designer Sarah Rosenhaus. "I wouldn’t avoid any particular color with lavender, but I would be cautious of using hues that are too bright or primary. Instead, opt for rich earth and jewel tones that enhance the quietness of lavender," she adds.

"The spectrum of lavender from the lightest blush to darker, bluer-toned purple is a broad family and used wisely can be an interesting alternative to pinks and blues," adds color expert and Farrow & Ball ambassador, Patrick O’Donnell. "But just err on the side of caution and get the tone right as it can be on the chilly side."

What is the best lavender paint color for your home?

While that all depends on the amount of natural light the space gets, what you're painting, and the look you're going for, we've shared some of our favorite lavender paint colors below.

Emma Breislin
Interiors Editor

Emma is the Interiors Editor at Livingetc. She formerly worked on Homes To Love, one of Australia's leading interiors websites, where she wrote for some of the country's top publications including Australian House & Garden and Belle magazine. Before that she was the Content Producer for luxury linen brand, CULTIVER, where she nurtured a true appreciation for filling your home with high-quality and beautiful things. At Livingetc, she spends her days digging into the big design questions — from styling ideas to color palettes, interior trends and home tours. Outside of work hours, Emma can often be found elbow-deep at an antique store, moving her sofa for the 70th time or mentally renovating every room she walks into. Having just moved to London, she's currently starting from scratch when it comes to styling her home, which, while to many may sound daunting, to her, is just an excuse to switch up her style.

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