This is the 'Old-Fashioned' Detail You're Forgetting on Your Table — "They Add a Layer of Height and Texture," Says a Stylist

Got all the ingredients for a good table setting but something still feels wrong? This is the detail you're likely missing

table setting with two stacked plates with foliage on it, a placemat, a knife resting on a cutlery rest, and another bread knife beside it
(Image credit: Ashanti via Artemest)

Cutlery rests. Tiny? Yes. Old-fashioned? Debateable. Unnecessary? Absolutely not. In fact, they're the dainty detail that can bring any table setting from good to great. They accentuate your flawless choice of flatware, and they protect your lovely linens. So why do so many of us forget them when setting the table?

To find out, I asked London-based table stylist Samantha Picard, founder of @tablescapeluvr. "I absolutely love cutlery rests," she told me. "Cutlery is so often an afterthought, but I’ve noticed a huge surge in interest in beautiful flatware, which naturally goes hand in hand with the rise of vintage linens. With more delicate tablecloths making a comeback, cutlery rests are not only practical — helping to avoid direct contact between utensils and fabric — but they also add an extra layer of detail, height, and texture to the tablescape."

And it's true, aside from their aesthetic appeal, cutlery rests are a practical tool when it comes to how to set a table. The quiet heroes of the dinner table, if you will. These tiny treasures, typically around 4" in length, also offer the opportunity to introduce a new design element to your setting — like metal, marble, or wood. "Whether you choose something sculptural for a bold statement or something subtle to blend seamlessly, cutlery rests are a small but impactful detail that brings an extra level of refinement to a table," adds Samantha.

Below, I've shared nine cutlery rests that show how this once considered to be old-fashioned detail can now be completely design-forward.

Samantha Picard

Samantha Picard is a London-based creative consultant and table stylist who goes by @tablescapeluvr on Instagram. She knows what's what when it comes to making table settings look good, so she's the perfect person to ask whether cutlery rests are crucial or not.

If looking at these chic cutlery rests has you dreaming up your next dinner party, be sure to check out our rules for entertaining.

Devin Toolen
Style Editor

Devin is a New York-based Style Editor for Livingetc who is keen on all aspects of personal style. From a young age, she was drawn to the design world, whether that was taking sewing classes in her hometown, or flipping through the pages of her mother’s interior design magazines. She spent hours on end watching HGTV home improvement and design programs, often sharing her opinions as if the TV could hear her.

After graduating from Villanova University with a BA in Communication and Spanish Language Studies, Devin moved to Paris, France to pursue her Master’s Degree in Fashion Studies at Parsons. It was here she refined her love for style in every sense of the word. While there to study fashion, living in Paris allowed Devin to fall in love with interior style. She grew fond of the city’s mix of both classic and contemporary designs that felt intentional and personal.

After moving back to the United States, Devin worked at Tom Ford and later Cosmopolitan Magazine. She loves sharing design choices with her readers, from explaining how to incorporate trends into interior spaces to sourcing the best products for your home. Devin believes style should be inclusive, exciting, and at its core, fun